Nextcloud TURN is not healthy, talk calls will not connect off of local network

chances are high tailscale doesn’t (properly) forward UDP.

I’m not familiar with it but many VPN solutions brake TURN for one or another reason. And even if it would work through VPN - VPN setup is not recommended as you want to setup the shortest possible network path for media - any additional network hop, encryption etc reduces audio and video quality. For this reason I would recommend you expose the TURN server directly, host it separated from your Nextcloud or use paid service e.g. Free WebRTC TURN Server - Open Relay Project | Open Relay Project - Free WebRTC TURN Server

Check if you find something useful in https://github.com/nextcloud/all-in-one/discussions/5439 and