But i need another server to do so (another appliance) ?
Or i do not clearly understand how to do so with only my rpi with ncp on it and dnsmasq, and a fuc**** router
In any case im blocked
It would involve selecting and learning a DNS server (bind, dnsmasq, there are others), implementing it on the rpi along with the appropriate zone and records, then making it the primary/sole DNS server for your LAN.
It sounds like your router is causing you some problems. If you’re interested in replacing it, check out OPNsense. It can also do both the DNS server and the NAT reflection.