hello @robertkwild
i have a same problem but i dont have a ssl.conf file ;-(
i have done - but still it is not working with caldav to sync
>vi /var/www/html/nextcloud/.htaccess
81 #### DO NOT CHANGE ANYTHING ABOVE THIS LINE ####
82 Redirect 301 /.well-known/carddav /nextcloud/remote.php/dav
83 Redirect 301 /.well-known/caldav /nextcloud/remote.php/dav
84
85 ErrorDocument 403 //
86 ErrorDocument 404 //