Clean install, can't get past first gui, but if i login then refresh the browser, it let's me in?

I recall this from a few years ago but don’t recall the fix.

Everything installed as of a few minutes ago, my last attempt, latest versions of everything. kubernetes kubeadm / helm install / FQDN is setup and working via an ingress.

I go to login and click login, it looks like its thinking but nothing ever happens, it just stays there, but if I click F5 to reload the webpage then it lets me in.

This is a helm based install so looking for a setting that needs to be configured in the helm chart.

** update **
ok, so I added this and it seems to be working but did i just remove a bunch of default settings that i need? does this cause the config file to have 3 lines or did these lines get added to the default config?

    configs:
      custom.config.php: |
        <?php
        $CONFIG = array (
          'overwriteprotocol' => 'https',
          'filelocking.enabled' => 'true',
          'enable_previews' => true,
        );

Which Helm chart? There are multiple images.

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